Men are well known for their meticulousness in cherry-picking women they fancy as a future mate; their egos swell with pride whenever the people around them compliment them for their immaculate taste in ladies. Picking a lady with great promise as a wife and soul mate turns into a test for them as they screen the numerous ladies with comparatively positive personality traits that make them appear as quality wife material.
As affection is as short lived for specific cases and is at times, subject to change due to external influences, it is of significance to ace the ropes of keeping a mate’s enthusiasm for you, other than simply getting him or her to begin to take a superficial interest in getting your affection. Why is that imperative? You may ask. The fact of the matter is obvious. Men have a more extensive pool of female candidates to look over, rather than ladies who are more constrained in their decisions of accessible men and are deemed less attractive once they have reached their forties and beyond that.
Flightiness turns into the privilege of men since they can discard those clingy females once they have delighted in having a casual affair or easygoing indulgence with the spurned ladies and proceed onward to apparently more suitable matches.
On the other hand, the concerning issue may not lie with male players and so forth. All things considered, not each men pursue the same ladies constantly. One person’s penchant for sexy bitches may not seem tempting to another man. On certain occasions, ladies with little care for showing a fair amount of social graces and indulge in malicious gossip and whining to gain the attention of their admirers would only unwittingly push men away with their lesser loved character imperfections.
Moving on, what are, thus, the likeliest ways to make men want to avoid a woman at all costs?
Behaving Like A Walking Encyclopedia
Acting like a walking encyclopedia with all knowledge at your finger-tips is indeed impressive, but at the same time, it will also cause your date to question if he had picked an incorrect match for a date when you go all out to test his IQ level, throwing questions at him, such as – (1)”Where do you think the economy is heading for by next year?” (2)”Do you think it is alright to bet on gold right now?” (3) “Who are you voting for in the next election?” Droning on about sensitive political and economic issues will serve to heighten the tension between you and your date since you have yet to really break the ice and gain a deeper level of knowledge about one another.
Throwing Your Weight Around And Showing Little Empathy For Others
Rushing for a vacant seat in the train with an elderly person or yelling obscenities at outsiders when things turn awry is not going to land you in the good books of your date either. Think about how terrifying it would seem to him to be dating a lady who talks in a boorish way in her state of delirium, inspired from her excitement at having hitched a cute guy that made her oblivious to her crude mannerisms – “What the fxxx were you knocking on the door when I was in the midst of taking a dump…you asshole…?” The uncivilized speech might leave him stunned for a moment, wondering whether he would be next in line to receive a barrage of less-than-pleasant words in his ears if he provoked her by telling her to treat other people with greater compassion.
Grilling A Man Non-Stop About His Private Affairs
The man has yet to make his adoration known to his date – that is – you and it’s apparent he is still unsure about entering into a deeper relationship with you. Yet you pursue the topic of becoming an exclusive couple together with dogged determination and leave him feeling cornered by your endless questions about who he meets and where he goes each day. Nothing kills a man more than having a lady force her demands down his throat and coax him into agreeing to her solicitations for affirmation of her “sweetheart” or “wife” status.
If you happen to fall into this specific category of women who love to cross examine their intended men day and night starting from the embryonic stage of a romance, then then do be prepared for possible rebuffs from men who cannot tolerate such unreasonable behavior and the limits imposed on their movements.
Be it for yourself or for the sole purpose of securing a decent man as a life partner, you need to flaunt the more positive side of you. Undoubtedly, you will feel glad when a man finds himself drawn to the special qualities he finds in you, as opposed to focusing on the saccharine appearance you possess. Other than impressing him with who you are, it also makes your man look great to have discovered his Ms. Right who is without a doubt, a hot favorite with many men.
Dating Advice From Titania Hudson – Author of ‘How To Make A Guy Realize You Are The One For Him.’ Titania Hudson Blog: https://www.amazon.com/Titania-Hudson/e/B015LX6H1G